Come back to yourself.
You’ve spent years becoming who you needed to be.
Maybe the next chapter is about discovering
who you choose to be.
Clarity. Growth. On your terms.
Identity Coach · NLP Master Coach · EI Certified Coach
Manifestation Coach · Parenting Coach · TEDx Speaker
Author of A Life That Breathes
You know
what to do.
You know
why.
Yet, the same
patterns repeat.
Different situation.
Same outcome.
It’s not a lack of
effort.
If that were true…
Knowing is information.
Change is transformation.
But what if the real pattern sits underneath?
You wouldn’t run your business on software you installed fifteen years ago. So why run your life on beliefs you formed years ago?
Fix a problem at the wrong level — it never holds. Shift it at the level it actually lives — it transforms.
Most coaching works on Behaviour and Skill. My work shifts Belief, Identity and your True North — so the change actually holds.
When identity shifts, beliefs follow. When beliefs shift, values clarify. When values clarify, choices align. When choices align, behaviour changes naturally. And the environment around you — your relationships, your work, your daily life — starts to reflect the version of you that's actually emerging.
I call it Nazariya. But the real point isn't the name. The point is — you stop trying to change the wrong thing.
Health, energy, discipline — the daily rhythms everything else rests on.
Stability, resilience, self-regulation — the quiet muscles of adult life.
Thinking patterns, clarity, and the decisions that shape your trajectory.
Purpose, alignment, intuition — the deeper compass beneath it all.
You were never meant to be a machine. You are a system. And every system needs a center that is still.— From A Life That Breathes
Even after the books. The courses. The affirmations. The fresh starts.
Watch my free training where I break this down simply.
I'm an identity coach and Clarity & Growth Strategist — NLP Master Coach, EI Certified Coach, Manifestation Coach, TEDx Speaker and Author. My work sits at the intersection of mindset, business strategy, and digital growth.
I help ambitious souls simplify their thinking, align their identity with their work, and build lives they actually want to live — not the ones they were told to want.
Keynotes, leadership programs and mindset experiences for organisations ready to think differently.
TEDx speaker · corporate keynotes · leadership offsites · university stages
The change people describe is rarely louder goals or a longer to-do list. It's quieter — they stop fighting themselves, and start recognising the person actually making their decisions.
We’re here to help you find clarity and the right next step — whether that’s 1:1 work, a course, or inviting Anu to speak.
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The way you see
changes the way you live.
Change your nazariya,
change what’s possible.
Identity coaching is a transformation process that helps you understand who you truly are — your values, beliefs, and purpose — so your career, relationships, and daily choices align with your authentic self instead of someone else's expectations.
Nazariya is Anu Taksali's signature identity transformation framework, based on the 7 Neurological Levels of Change. It works at the level of belief and identity — not just behaviour — so that change actually lasts.
You can work with Anu through 1:1 identity coaching, her programs and courses, her book A Life That Breathes, or by inviting her to speak at your event. The simplest place to start is a discovery call at unwindwithanu.com/connect.
Yes. Anu is an NLP Master Coach, EI (Emotional Intelligence) Certified Coach. She is also a TEDx speaker and the author of A Life That Breathes.
Yes. Anu offers online identity coaching, NLP sessions, and digital programs accessible from anywhere in the world. Sessions are held over video call.
An identity coach works at the level of who you believe you are, rather than only what you do. Instead of adding habits or tactics on top of an unchanged self-image, an identity coach helps you surface the beliefs, values and patterns quietly driving your decisions — so the change holds instead of fading in a few weeks.
Most life coaching works on goals, behaviour and accountability — the visible layers. Identity coaching goes underneath them. It asks why the same pattern keeps returning even when you know exactly what to do, and shifts the belief and identity levels where that pattern actually lives. Behaviour then changes on its own, because it is no longer fighting your self-image.
It suits professionals, founders, coaches and parents who are capable and already doing the work, yet keep meeting the same ceiling — procrastinating on what matters, over-thinking decisions, or needing permission to move. If effort has never been your problem, identity is usually where the answer sits.
